Question: My father wants me
to marry a banker. I myself did my first job at a Bank, but when I learnt
through some authentic sources that interest is prohibited, I immediately
resigned. Now I am upset because I can’t stand a life where the major source
of income for me & my family would be that very corrupt & filthy
system of banking. I have no other objection in this proposal because the
boy and his family are good otherwise. Although he is not a practicing
Muslim, he is very honest, decent and affectionate. Please advise.
Answer: Well in this regard
what needs to be understood is that the real thing which is prohibited
and haram is charging of interest. The money earned through a bank
job is not haram. However, a banker is actually doing something
undesirable by doing this job since this amounts to co-operating with evil
and only in compelling circumstances should one do such a thing.
The other thing is that if a person
is not a practicing Muslim, then this is something more alarming than being
a banker. A lady should positively look for a practicing Muslim. I think
if you make this criteria, then you will find practicing Muslims who are
not bankers either. Also, there may be practicing Muslims who are convinced
that bank-interest is not the interest prohibited by the Qur’an.
If they have sincerely formed this opinion and are intellectually honest
in this regard, then of course such bankers are a category apart. They
have adopted a view point not in violation of Islam but because they are
intellectually convinced about the fact that it is in conformity with Islam.
I do not think that marrying such ‘bankers’ can be objected to. Of course,
you may not be comfortable in marrying such people – in which case you
should not.
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