Question: What
are the Islamic greetings and their proper responses? Is there a special
way to greet one another while departing?
Answer: Al-salamu
‘Alaykum (peace be to you) is the only greeting
that Islam has laid stress on when people meet people. The Prophet (sws)
through his established practice has directed Muslims to use this greeting
when they meet one another. This greeting is to be answered in a similar
fashion by saying Wa ‘alaykumu’l-salam (and peace be to you too).
In this regard, the correct etiquette
is that a person should try to take the initiative instead of waiting for
others to begin. The Prophet (sws) is reported to have said:
The young should greet the adult, the pedestrian
should greet the stationed and the small group of people should greet the
larger group. (Bukhari, Kitabu’l-Istidhan)
Secondly, this salutation is not confined
to known people; even unknown people one comes across should be greeted
by it --since it basically is a prayer of well-being. The Prophet (sws)
is reported to have said:
A person asked the Prophet (sws): ‘What is the
best in Islam’. The Prophet replied: ‘To feed the poor and to greet a person
you know with al-salamu ‘alaykum as well as to greet him whom you
do not know. (Bukhari, Kitabu’l-Istidhan)
Using this greeting while departing is
optional. One can say anything that expresses good wishes.
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