Question: How should one approach
a Christian Father to help him revert to Islam? What should be the
points that would convince a Christian to shun Christianity?
Answer: Before answering your
questions, I think it would be important to suggest the proper mentality
for a matter such as this. When approaching any person of another faith,
the most important guidelines to follow are encompassed within the values
of sincerity, humility and respect. I believe when engaging with individuals
interested to learn more about Islam one should approach the engagement
as an opportunity for dialogue, not simply an avenue for conversion. There
is unfortunately such a great deal of misinformation and misunderstanding
about our religion that even simply correcting these matters through dialogue
is an important part of da‘wah. If conversion results from arguments
you present, then that is wonderful. However, the other party in the dialogue
should not doubt the sincerity of your engagement by suspecting you have
other motives. An easy way to judge your approach is to ask yourself how
you would feel if a Christian were aggressively trying to convert you to
Christianity as compared to simply helping you learn more about it.
With regard to the ‘points’ that should
be used to convince a Christian to shun Christianity, a few things should
be understood. First, you should not aim to have them shun their
faith, but rather find greater truth in yours. After all, the message to
those who later became Christians was originally the eternal message of
Islam. Only later, were parts of it corrupted. Hence, your general approach
should recognize that although there is great value in the teachings of
Christianity, Islam is the final revelation that helps correct and complete
what came before it. Second, it must be kept in mind that there is no set
formula or list of points to be used for all Christians, no matter who
they are. That is to assume that all Christians are the same and not give
proper weight to the respective backgrounds and contexts that they come
from. It is always important to develop a sincere relationship with whoever
you are speaking to about Islam, if for no other reason than discovering
what parts of Islam they would find most valuable. You are most likely
to win someone over by highlighting the strengths of Islam, as opposed
to the deficiencies of the Bible.
(Adnan Zulfiqar)
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