Question: What is your opinion
regarding the trading of young girls in North West Frontier Province (NWFP)
of Pakistan or of marrying young girls to old men in order to settle disputes.
Isn’t this rape!? Why does the Pakistani government not object or why don’t
the religious parties?
Answer: The trading of girls
in the NWFP or any other part of the world, in the name of marriage or
anything else, is strictly forbidden. In Islam, both potential spouses
must provide their acceptance of the marriage. It is not up to the parents
to accept the marriage on behalf of their son or daughter. There are countless
instances from the Prophet’s (sws) life where he affirmed this right for
women. With regard to whether the Pakistani government has objected to
this practice, the government has expressed concern regarding this issue
and other issues involving women. However, on this particular issue it
seems rather impossible for the government to regulate the marital decisions
of every family within its borders. It is even more difficult for a state
that respects the privacy of its citizens. The legal courts remain the
best avenues for addressing these matters. Hence, the first order of business
in rectifying situations like this is to improve the judicial system of
Pakistan.
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